Sunday 2 October 2016

I'm a gay and I've feelings for my elder brother. What should I do?


Incest is sexual intercourse between two persons commonly regarded as too closely related to marry
This typically includes sexual activity between people in a consanguineous relationship (blood relations), and sometimes those related by affinity, such as individuals of the same household, step relatives, those related by adoption or marriage, or members of the same clan or lineage.
The first step in healing from incest is to end the confusion in your lives. Some of the most common signs of the after effects of incest survivors are:
  • Bed wetting, nightmares, fears of going to bed and other sleep disturbances.
  • Fear of being alone in the dark.
  • Difficulty swallowing, a repugnance of water on peoples face, and a feeling of suffocation.
  • Alienation from their body, a poor body image and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD).
  • An extreme requirement for privacy, especially using the bathroom.
  • Eating disorders, drug and alcohol abuse, and other compulsive behaviors.
  • Self-destructiveness, like skin carving and other self-abuse.
  • Phobias.
  • Depression.
  • Gender issues.
  • Inability to trust.
  • Guilt, shame, or low self-esteem.
  • Abandonment issues.
  • Demanding to be loved, because love was taken not given.
  • Blocking out periods of their early years, a form of selective amnesia.
  • Fleeing crazy or unreal and creating a fantasy world.
  • Denial (part of the memories) it was not that bad. They have dreams and flashbacks remembering surroundings but not the incest.
  • Sexual issues, sex is dirty they do not want to be touched.
  • Trouble integrating sexuality and emotionally.
  • Dominance, aggression, violence, manipulation, sexual inability of having sex with intimate relationships.
  • Porno avoidance, inappropriate sexual activity or showing an unusual interest in sexual matters.
  • Avoidance of mirrors.
  • Desire to change names.
  • Difficulty to tolerate happiness.
  • Regression to infantile behavior, clinging.
  • Pain, itching, bleeding, fluid or rawness in private areas.
  • Multiple personalities.

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