Sunday 2 October 2016

How can I become more introverted?

Personality is a set of traits that define the way a person's behavior is perceived.
Yes, it is possible to change from extroversion to introversion.
First, it’s very rare that people are 100% extroverted or introverted, we are Ambiverts. Extroverts aren’t all social butterflies, and introverts aren’t necessarily shy. In fact, the extraversion-introversion divide isn’t about personality at all. The distinction is defined by where people get their energy from -- other people, or solitude. Introverts gain energy by being alone, while extroverts are invigorated by social situations.
Introverts tend to enjoy quiet concentration, listen more than they talk, and think before they speak,and have a more circumspect and cautious approach to risk.Introverts think more, are less reckless and focus on what really matters—relationships and meaningful work.
You can make yourself act in ways you don't like and get used to it. It involves self deceiving to a great extend. You do things against your wish and your happiness, but gradually you might start enjoying it.
So what is the action plan
  1. Be a good listener, talk less.
  2. Be self-sufficient
  3. Be super focused
  4. Be very observant
  5. Be trustworthy
  6. Be in touch with their feelings
  7. Be thought-provoking when you start talking.
  8. Enjoy Solitude
  9. Have Few, but very loyal friendships
  10. The best thinking occurs when you’re by yourself.
  11. Constantly running inner monologue
If by doing all this, people often describe You as Quiet and May Find It Difficult to Get to Know You, you have succeeded.
Chances are high that your peers feel you have gone mad.
Introverts and extroverts are best at what they are. To accept ones own self and making it better is the best option. A person can gradually change , but if done suddenly it might
1. Create dilemma within oneself, live a fake identity.
2. Peer group(family and friends)might feel something has gone wrong.
3. More of acting than a change

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