Friday, 25 November 2016

How should I handle the pressure of being alone when a best friend of mine has betrayed me?

If you are betrayed it means he/she was not your friend. So the best thing to do is learn from the mistake and be prudent while making friends. Don’t feel dejected and feel bad about yourself . Close the chapter and move ahead, don’t trust the guy but don’t hate him either. Hatred will ruin you from within, hence introspect from the experience learn from it and be happy.

Don’t waste time by degrading yourself by trying to return the favor. If you are a Indian you might be aware of the concept of ‘Karma’; he will get what he deserves.
While choosing friends remember the story of ‘THE BEAR AND THE TWO FRIENDS’

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Once two friends were walking through the forest. They knew that anything dangerous can happen to them at any time in the forest. So they promised each other that they would remain united in any case of danger.
Suddenly, they saw a large bear approaching them. One of the friends at once climbed a nearby tree. But the other one did not know how to climb. So being led by his common sense, he lay down on the ground breathless, pretending to be a dead man.
The bear came near the man lying on the ground. It smelt in his ears, and slowly left the place. Because the bears do not touch the dead creatures.Now the friend on the tree came down and asked his friend on the ground, “Friend, what did the bear tell you into your ears?” The other friend replied, “The bear advised me not to believe a false friend.”

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